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Dreams Never Die Till... 4

Dreams die hard but give birth to more durable ones. The abrupt end to a dream is not common place unless the dreamer was day dreaming and building castles in the air. Dreams are invested with a resilience to sustain them through a lifetime once they are conceived and until they have been fully delivered of their objectives. We are bound to them as soon as something triggers our memory, even remotely. We can only fine tune them to fast track their reactivation with more vigour.
Many careers or academic pursuit fail to materialize because they were unsuitable to the passion of those whom circumstances rather than their dreams determined their choices. This category of people had to revert back eventually to what they actually wanted to do after going through the tragedy of a misadventures. Most of this happened as a result of peer-influences or parental insistence to have their way. Even career guidance at a formal level have not quite ameliorated this unfortunate situation. The abilities and interest of someone must guide whatever choice one makes in life. The resultant frustration and agony of failure to achieve our dreams cannot be overemphasized. Much time has been wasted in embarking on a wild goose chase but the best decision is to get our bearings right once we realize the futility of being in the wrong profession. Sooner or later it would be a prosperous and delightful experience from going back to our dreams.
It is not necessarily about a flamboyant career prospects looming larger than the benefits thereon. It is about matching up that dream career with your ability to excel and prosper. The motivation must come from the resources within us. We have seen people who excelled academically in one discipline, abandon it for another profession or something unthinkable, and leave everyone with curiosity and speculation about this turn of event. It is all because dreams never die till the dreamer dies. There’s absolute satisfaction doing what you know how to do best.
 Hold on to your dream!

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