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Before This, Place That

Place your thoughts and ideas in the right order so that you do not get entangled or frustrated in the midst of your (life) project.

It is worrisome and unpleasant to jump the gun, or to put the cart before  the horse. Little wonder the unrealized or failed experience encountered when such principle is not taken into consideration.

Nutrients for your thought:
Before money become the solution to achieving your dreams, place passion.
Those people who grumble for lack of money as a prerequisite to moving up on the ladder of life, do not see the future with an optimistic view. Our undying passion should be kept burning under faith (an optimistic view of what is to come).

Before opportunity become what you seek for, make yourself and skills available for every good works.
It's saddening to know that some people suffer poor self esteem and are  (as well as their abilities) unlikely conspicuous to people around them; while some are lazy or apathetic over contributing towards a goal in an environment yet ironically, they seek opportunity. Someone might be out there looking out for you. Make judicious use of your time and abilities anywhere you are.

Before dreaming again, first identify dreams you've already actualized or under progress, else you keep dreaming and not get fulfilled.
There are people lost in the world of what they want to be. The effect afterwards leaves such persons devastated as so much energy might have been channelled to keep the dream in the head.
I have once met an obsessed person whose idea was vague. Her plans were promiscuous. She drove headlong into meeting her goals. And at that, more ideas flooded her mind and one is then replaced over the other causing a mishmash and stumbling. Where constant failure is experienced, that person could be broken or be in detriment. Nevertheless, consistency in a chosen path could possibly bring about a break through;however, it is paramount that we make proper plans toward achieving a realistic goal.

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